I always heard it said that children were not
born with an instruction manual. I
vaguely remember thinking this proverb was true, until I had my own
children. I quickly came to realize as
soon as my first perfect baby was placed in my arms, that indeed, there was an
instruction manual. The instruction manual was ingrained in her
and it was written in code, a code that I did not understand or recognize. Panic hit me, how was I to have this amazing
relationship with my child, if I didn’t understand how she was intricately put
together?
Each child that comes to this planet has been
sent with the highest intention to create legacy and succeed. Somewhere along the way; human beings lose
sight of their gifts, allow themselves to be overrun by negative emotions and forget
their magnificence. How often does the instruction manual that is
intricately wired within, lay dormant and stay a mystery? Is it not true that many people walk this
planet and live a lifetime without knowing or living their higher purpose?
It’s quite simple, as parents we want the very
best for our children. We show our love
by: caring diligently, providing a home, nutritious food, clothing,
extracurricular activities and any material possessions they desire. We fill our days surrounded by our children
and yet we never really know the depth of their capabilities, their desires and
what their true brilliance is.
As a mother, nurturer and caregiver, I have come
to understand that each of my children is uniquely wired. My children have their own sole purpose on
this planet; allowing the creation of a spectacular journey and legacy. As a parent our tendency is to fix everything,
place a band aid on each scrape and kiss it better, however, the hardest part
is allowing our child to shape and define their journey. It’s very much like the peonies flower that
has so many petals; as we watch the flower mature we see each petal open, one
by one, until a beautiful flower bursts open.
Each child can begin the building blocks of
success right from birth. Teach your
child they are magnificent; allow them to see the very best of themselves
knowing they have a purpose. Children
are like sponges they learn by seeing, hearing and feeling. As we parent these brilliant little ones are
we leading by example? How are we doing
on our journey or life?
When children are lead by parents who have
excellent rapport with their Unconscious Mind, deliberately moving toward what
they want and living life with a purpose the possibilities are endless.
